26th September - I'm Sapiosexual



It's big, it's bulging, it can even swell when excited, and it pumps continuously. Few are aware, but the most erotic muscle in the human body lives way higher than the waistline, and actually inside our heads. You see, the brain plays the most major role in the physiology of sex. It modulates the autonomic aspects of sexual arousal (which is why they say 90% of a man's erection lives in his mind, not his body), and it also regulates the pituitary, and influences the maturation and function of the gonads as well as the timing of puberty.

In a previous diary post here over the weekend, I stated that I've always held a certain standard of intellect when dating. I strongly stand by that statement, because when engaging in sexual relations with somebody, our initial attractions are based solely on physical connection, or finding the person attractive. For heterosexual men, that often means placing pivotal importance on eyes, lips, breasts, and buttocks of the female, whilst for females, I presume, it's all about the penis? Which is a tad unfortunate, considering they don't usually get to actually see that part until it's too late. 




For a 'one night stand', those physical attractions can suffice, though you'll soon find the willing participant turfed out, because the connection doesn't run any deeper than the physical 'itch' which has now been scratched. The purpose here is complete, and it's job done. But to initiate a real 'relationship', and devote your daily time and living existence to the company of another person, there simply has to be a certain symmetrical level of intellect. Otherwise, both members will find their conversations lacking, or 'misfiring' on topics. Whilst one might wish to discuss superficial and emotionally unintelligent topics, the other may look to explore deeper, more meaningful cultural and intellectual discussion points.




Finding a partner who can't rise to your level on the latter will cause frustration and superiority, both emotions which only possess negative connotations within a relationship, whilst the former might feel perplexed, confused, or misunderstanding of points beyond their intellectual comprehension. When I, correctly, point out that every woman I've ever participated in a 'relationship' with has at least studied to University/degree standard, it is not because I am a 'snob', but more so that I realise my own happiness would be sacrificed in any other type of scenario. If you are willing to share your life with somebody who, for example, cannot spell, then - as triggered or 'victimised' as you may feel right now - it is a direct mirror of your own intellectual level. Search deep within yourself and you'll know that to be true. Next time, if you view yourself as an intellect, ignore the overinflated genitalia, or ripping pecs when choosing a life partner, and instead, opt for one who can stimulate you long into your O.A.P years, via the most erotic muscle of them all....




... The brain.


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